Tuesday, October 16, 2012
The Lunacy of women - this is not high school anymore!
Women that make the rest of us look bad!! Arg! Sorry have to do a little recap here.... So I have an x that was not very nice all of the time and apparently continued this behavior with the new girl friend (as stated by her) About 2 years ago she started harassing me with emails, text messages and phone calls for weeks, one day I was driving and my phone rang and without thinking I answered the phone, it was her, I figured to late now so I answered her questions and told her what was done to me blah blah blah. I was left alone for a few days then harassed again asking me to send her pictures. What kind of woman asks that, anyway I refused to do that, that was just sick. I believe I probably posted about the whole thing on here at the time, I will look for it to reference the craziness.
Now its been a while I think 2 years all has been calm, nothing from her at all. I had refused to change my number because I had done it way to many times. So nothing all this time well that changed, here we go again.
What the hell if you know your man is contacting other women get a grip he is not honest with you about your relationship and your not honest with yourself or just stupid. Do Not contact his ex-wives and girlfriends to harass them. They are not the problem or issue and at this point neither is the man!! After all this time you know that this is the way this man is and this is what he does however wrong it is, you are the issue now - that is him if you don't like it get out, move on, wake up and get a life. Put on your big girl panties and be a god damn adult not a 15 year old who just saw her crush kiss another little girl. He is not going to change leave these other women alone they already grew up and out its your turn.
Women who behave like this are the women that give us all a bad name. We do not need more women running around acting so foolishly, we need more women who learn and grow, strong women with strong minds. Women who behave this way are sending us all backwards.
And another thing to think about........ you left your husband to be with this man I believe this is called KARMA. Another thing that makes us all look bad, Moral Check please! Time to grow a spine either deal with him calling and texting/sexting other women, and the other abuse or move the fuck on like the rest of us big girls! And stop making other women relive this shit because you choose to accept this petty phone shit the other crap is much worse. Maybe these women do not want to be contacted and now they are being harassed by both parties. I was stupid and stuck around for black eyes, giant hidden bruises and cracked cheek bones then one day I was almost killed I yanked up those big girl panties and kicked his ass out of MY house (still had to move across the country in the end to feel safe), I was not warned, was 2000 miles from any family and had vast medical issues you were warned, have family and friends there and are not dealing with medical issues, be thankful for these things they are gifts they will help you out. Harassing the women that survived and moved on is like slapping us all in the face. All women not just the ones that he is talking to, this world needs more strong women not juvenile ones.
Women are sometimes their own worst enemies!
Love shouldn't hurt!
Women need to work together to stop domestic violence not against each other!!
Posted by Nyla at 12:09 AM